Author Archives: Reiko
What to do with my free time?
One would think that when retired from work, there should be far less stress than when working full time while juggling family and other responsibilities. Sure, this is true to a certain extent but not necessarily. Who would have thought? … Continue reading
Mother
If my mother were alive, she would have turned 99 years old today. At age 19, she went into an arranged marriage with a man who was a decade older. Thereafter, both her older sisters believed that she was happily … Continue reading
Friends
Perhaps like most people, I have never been one to go out of my way to be in search of friends. Those few who stuck with me over the years came into my world “organically,” or by chance encounters, and … Continue reading
Japanese maple tree
After the 2009 fire at our previous residence, there was just one thing that I wanted to make sure of. That is, upon completion of the rebuild, a Japanese maple tree was planted in the front yard in place of … Continue reading
A dandelion
Years ago, David and I were at the wedding of David’s brother John and his first bride-to-be. We were their best man and bride’s maid respectively. They have since divorced. In any event, the night before the event, we had … Continue reading
Lucky me!
Looking back, I have always been healthy my entire life. Aside from getting the right amount of sleep each night, rarely over-eating, and some pure luck, I attribute this primarily to some simple habits that were instilled in me by … Continue reading
My way
Lately, I’ve often been thinking a lot about the song, “My Way,” by Frank Sinatra. The lyrics of this song truly sum up my life, as I am sure it does for many others – even though each of us … Continue reading
“Omake” – or special extra
Today, February 17, 2024, we are celebrating our 52nd wedding anniversary. I consider any time given to us to spend together over the half-century mark, which we celebrated in 2022, as an “omake (o-mah-keh)” or “special extra.” It reminds me … Continue reading
Time for fun with friends
In December 2023, David and I met up with our dear friends, Karen and George, and visited Graceland, the home of Elvis Presley, in Memphis, Tennessee. Karen has always been a huge fan of Elvis. From there, we drove to … Continue reading
Thanksgiving 2023
Recently, at the annual Thanksgiving gathering at Jesse and Kathy’s place in Ohio, I ended up talking with Jessica, our oldest granddaughter, until 3:56 a.m. I don’t remember what time we began our conversation, but I simply treasure the fact … Continue reading