Any of us who has been around for a while recognizes that death is part of life and that women typically outlive men. For most of my adult life, therefore, I was focused on being independent, preparing myself for an eventual widowhood. You may be thinking, “What a sad way to live a life!” For better or for worse, I have always been one to think ahead, as in, “What happens next?” What can I say?
Since the day we met half a century ago, I have always enjoyed being in David’s company more than anything else in life. I had no desire to go out on a “girls’ night out,” for instance. He has been, is, and will always be my best friend and soulmate.
Young couples who are deeply in love often say, “We want to spend the rest of our lives growing old together.” We have been one of those couples, fortunate enough to be able to fulfill that dream.
In recent months, three of my closest friends lost their husbands one after another. These events made me realize, up close and personal, that I cannot take for granted my life with David.
So, now, I’m thinking that I’d better enjoy the time left with David even more than ever – so that, no matter what happens to either of us at any moment, I will have no regret.
Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!
